"There's nothing happy about having your fate decided for you! You have to grab your own happiness!"
~Lucy Heartfilia, from the anime Fairy Tail by Hiro Mashima

Just sitting back and letting the world decide what should happen to you isn't going to make you happier. It's not going to make you truly happy at all. You have to grab your own happiness, run your own life. You have to decide what makes your heart smile.

~Paint_splatt