Their way is to listen to them and do as they say. Then they will be fine.

Her way is to do what she orders and not question. Then she'll be fine.

My way is to breathe and stay alive. Then I'll be okay.

They're unhappy and don't listen if you don't do it their way.

She's cross and angry if you don't do it her way.

I'm flailing and in pain if I don't do it my way.

What is your way?