So Y/N can sometimes be relatable

But a lot of times they aren't.

Here are some examples of non-relatable Y/N that are usually Mary Sues:

Waking up
I woke up from my nice sleep and got out of bed. My pajamas were gray sweatpants and a white loose top. I went to the bathroom and took a shower, dried my hair, curled it a little, washed my face, and applied some makeup. I put some foundation, eyeshadow, blush, eyeliner, and lipgloss. I put my uniform and Adidas shoes on and got my Calvin Klein bag. Then I got in the car and my chauffeur brought me to school.

Now, lots of people don't do these things in the morning. Yes, some people somehow find time to do all this but I know I don't. I have no time to shower, I can't bother with makeup because it's bad for my skin and I'm super lazy, and not everyone has the money for a Calvin Klein book bag. I know a lot of people's morning routines consist of putting on casual clothes (if your school doesn't use uniforms) and having a backpack that isn't designer. Also, not every family has the money to have butlers and maids and such.
Also when was the last time you guys slept well because even if I sleep for 7 hours I am super tired and dead when I wake up.

Looks
My name is Y/L/N Y/F/N! I have long brown hair that had soft curls and I had bangs. I had milky skin that was soft and have a nice body even though I though I was fat. I have soft brown eyes and small but cute lips. God I was ugly.

I HAVE SEEN THINGS LIKE THIS AND GIRL IF YOU ARE UGLY WTF AM I??
Not everyone is pale, not everyone has perfect hair or skin. I get the whole brown hair and brown eye thing because the character is suppose to be asian but still try to make it more relatable.
My hair is legit a rat's nest if I don't straighten it.

Languages
Good thing I know a lot of languages so I can help Seventeen learn more languages since I am Wonwoo's sister! I can speak Chinese, English, Korean, and Japanese. (Sometimes the Y/N can speak French but that's rare)

Why only Asian languages? Asian languages and English are not the only languages that exist. If the Y/N is suppose to represent you, shouldn't you be able to choose the languages she speaks based on the ones you know?

Heritage/place she was born/lives
*this can go a few ways*
Born in South Korea
Born in the USA
Born in Japan
Born in China
Lives in the Philippines
Lives in China
Lives in the USA
Lives in South Korea
Lives in Japan

Like I said before, if Y/N is suppose to be you, why can't you choose where she lives/was born? She can still be Asian, just born in another country. Not all Asians live in Asia or the USA. There are Asians in loads of countries in both Americas, Europe, Australia, etc. And also Asia is not just Thailand, Taiwan, China, Japan, the Koreas, Philippines, etc. Like what if I want Y/N to be born in Latin America? Canada?

You can only finds Y/N stories that let you choose this and languages Y/N speaks on Tumblr.

Texting their bestie
"Omo he totally likes you"
"Ani he doesn't idk what you are talking about Hana... Yixing would never like me"
"Just because he is a Kingka doesn't mean he can't like you pabo"

See me and my best friend we send each other memes, Kpop stuff, pictures of fat men, and confuse the heck out of our friend who is a newbie to Kpop. Me and my friends text about how terrified we are for our exams. We send stupid pictures of each other. We rarely talk about guys and crushes because we don't have crushes.

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A/N: how do I explain to a smol middle schooler that knows nothing about Kpop about the Kpop posters, albums, and photo cards in my bedroom?