Reason: Situational

I dated this girl for about 8 months. She was pretty cool. We had a lot in common and she would constantly ask me how I was doing. She seemed to care so much about me. We talked almost every day. I never had any who would drop anything to talk to me. It felt so nice. I'll admit that I took for granted.

We moved in together shortly after. She brought it up one night, right before bed. I told her that she would be better off getting a roommate with a good job. I was on the rocks with mine. The company was downsizing. She looked heart broken, but insisted. I finally caved and agreed.

I ended up loosing my job and she was paying all the bills. Her paycheck was huge so she never minded. I couldn't believe how well she was treating me. I felt bad for her. What made her like this. I could make her do anything at the drop of a hat.... where was the challenge. She was so submissive. To the point where it was boring. I lost interest. At this point we had our year anniversary together. She was so happy. She was always happy. I've never seen her cry.

I realized she just wasn't the girl for me, but I had no where else to go. When did I realize this? 7 months ago. I found another job and began cheating on her with a girl from work. Flirting here and there, but if it wasn't for the kissing it would be casual. Harley found out quickly. She wasn't stupid. Made me respect how she didn't give me a second chance. I'm glad it ended this way. If I would have broken up with her she would have completely fallen apart. She had attachment issues.

She screamed and released her rage. She had all the right to say those hurtful things. I deserved all of them. I knew she could never be happy being the doormat she was. No one could keep that smile forever. It would be easier on her heart if she broke, now rather than later.

She got a back bone. She let it all out then collapsed in tears. I left all the money I owed her in an envelope on her pillow. I finally saw real emotion behind that happy passive puppet. Soon someone swept her off her feet. I hear that she's living happily with 3 kids. Now I'm the one happy for her.