I  made him un homophobic now and he's a feminist now we're also dating him and this is a reminder that you can fix him or her or them 😍🥰  jk 98% of the time you can't and don't be like Halloween he's a rapist you can't fix him or she killed your cat and hamster that but quirky and he isn't just traumatised if he's the one that did the traumatising