When our trip was almost over you said: "Back to reality."

But in my head, I asked: "Why, isn't this real?"

Well, is it? Right? It has to be.

I answered myself, "Yes. It is real. This is Reality."

What else could it be, but a magnificent painting of our own reality? A reality far beyond our imagination could comprehend.

This picture, though blurry because it is an epitome of perfect imperfection.

The blur symbolizes what we were before, the questions you ask yourself of "what if?" and "what will be?"

But this, this is our own reality.

Our reality that seems so messed up.  A reality we believed to be so bad that whatever good that happens to us we think of it as fantasy. 

But what really is fantasy? 

You might think it's those stories about trolls, dragons, witches and warlocks, mermaids, and myths but that's just it. It's fiction something imaginary, an event and/or creature someone made up to hide from their reality.

But they couldn't hide from it. Not for long.

Fiction is their Fantasy and it's so far from what really is Reality.

Reality is real. It's what's happening right now. With you and me. 

Our rough patches and our amazing moments together. Both of which are polar opposites but it's our reality. Good and bad things are still real. 

You might think, because of every shitty thing that happened to you, that every bad thing is reality and every good thing is fantasy but that's just it, it's not.

What happens in our life both good and bad is real we just don't accept it as real because we believe that we deserve to be treated so badly by life because of our choices.

But that's just it. Right? It's what we believe. So let's believe in something better, something positive, something good.

Because we control our own reality. We can choose to make it better. So why don't we?

The clarity of the stars unseen by the naked eye are visible and piercing to the mind, heart, and soul. This is a clear image of our reality. 

I know one thing for sure, that part of our reality is this love we have for each other. We create our realities, both believable and incredible. 

Now it's your turn what will you do to your reality?

You are every way unique and it is such an honor to grow with you, both delightful and difficult.

Your life is real

Your laugh is real

Your loss is real

Your love is real

No matter good or bad. It's real.

You are real

 You are reality.;