Moms at it again... she's grabbing her stuff and probably gonna drive away, and probably say she's gonna drive off a bridge and then hours later come back...
This has happened for years now but for once it didn't start off about how shitty their marriage is.
She's very obsessed with her baby grandchild but she just doesn't know how to back the fuck off about giving his mom care knowledge so she acts all high and mighty about having raised many kids despite what the mom and my dad tell her. I get it that the other night it wasn't fair at all that she made one mistake and was being yelled at even though the mom was giving him things worse than a little bit of watermelon that destroys his stomach. But she really didn't help her case by once again... acting high and mighty about having dealt with the same cases so she somehow shouldn't be told that she shouldn't give him watermelon...
But now she just got into another fight with dad because the kid has to get a third ear surgery cause he had a runny nose for over a week, so she's upset that a new mom is hesitant to give her kid medicines. But she just won't stop acting high and mighty because she went through those surgeries an had to be snobby about it.
So now she feels like dad is never on her side and she's a horrible person... I'm, at the very least, well aware that dad is the fuckin last person to go to, he's not gonna consider your feelings, he's blunt, rational, a dick, and too easily stressed. He's gonna tell you what you did wrong and maybe tell you ways to fix it. He's not gonna be nice and sweet about it especially after you don't listen the first time about backing down.
She honestly enrages me so fucking much, cause she just can't be wrong, she has to be right, she has to defend herself over every tiny detail, she has to blame something instead of not blaming at all, and she has to fucking help in everything, she can't just listen she has to come up with something and that just makes everyone feel inferior. What's worse is she won't fucking listen she's gotta think about what you're saying way before you finish so she comes to her own wild conclusions and can't understand why you're telling her she's focused on the wrong details. I had to fucking fight her for an HOUR because she wouldn't listen to me when I asked her why we wouldn't do some plans. All I wanted to know was why couldn't we get the easy basics started... but she couldn't fucking let go of the final part of the plan which was a group design but I never fucking asked about the design! I just wanted to know why we couldn't go and paint a fucking wall like we planned to do for a MONTH but she won't stop telling me about how everyone has to agree on a design and have a day off to do so, which has nothing to do with the original plan, that was just thrown in...
It's even worse that she fuckin blames me for not telling her when to do it. It's her fucking plan! Whenever it's my plan and I even fucking remind everyone involved when it's gonna happen with specific dates and times its my fucking fault she didn't get up on time but I did, and then it's even more my fault when she fucking backs out and fucking sleeps all day. And not only do I have to wake up a fucking adult and bitch at her until she gets ready just so I can do one small thing like go to my friends, I now have to be in charge of her planning her own things?!
Not one bit do I fuckin pity her this time, not a single ounce. I still hate hearing all the yelling... Dad's voice is terrifying and so loud...