i am all in for realistic lesbian and gay relations in anime/movie/series and books if they are done right

but it is problematic when you fetishizes it

fujoshi terms is used for those that like to fetishize gay couples

fudashi is term used for boys that fetishize lesbian couples

you mf fujoshi//fudashi are some of the most embarrassing people i have seen

*sides eyes the sns, bakudeku, kpop shippers*

fujoshi in nutshell:

"grrr why is that girl approaching that guy?"

'because she is his gf?-'

"no she is a ugly bitchy hoe : D"

"gurl she just appeared for  a minute and is already the sweetest person"

when they see gay couples:

AAAAA SO CUTE 

WHO IS TOP? WHO IS BOTTOM?

WHY IS YOU NOT EMO AND THE OTHER SHORT SOFTIE?

fudashi:

"oh those two girls are so cute they should kissss"

again the same top and bottom bs

just stop

you aren't supporting us

top and bottom bs is stereotypical bl cliche which doesn't exist but is a mere fetish

short and cute, tall and emo is also a fucking stereotype 

they are normal fucking people

like you go around thinking that's  how gay or lesbian couples are

please

get

help

you need to touch grass and face reality

you ruin w/w and m/m in every way possible

i swear fujoshi fangirls are legit misogynist they just can't tolerate any girl who come in their "ship"

fudashi fanboys are just misandirst 

also 

random ass question

am i the only one that see's a lot of girl hate in gay fics and books?

it's just so overly done cliche 

why can't we have a fic where a dude with gf doesn't cheat on her due to finding his sexuality

why can't the girl heal her broken heart and support them?

why are the comments so toxic and support the cheating dude?

i have so many questions

the same can't be said for many lesbian fics and books?

because in most lesbian books the man turns out to be very supportive it's very rare to see a man against them 

~peace