well . this happened a few days ago , but it's still really on my mind and i can't really get rid of it . all i'm going to say is , everyone already knows who i had a problem with and you know what ? i'm not asking you all to automatically hate her , but if you've listened to her , you'd automatically think i'm the  ' fake bitch ' .

however , i'm not . this time of the year is actually really hard enough as it is WITHOUT this person's added bullshit . the  reason i cut ties with this person was simple . and i'll state it again and again .

she is toxic .

pure toxic .  i don't mean to be horrible , but all she really cares about is herself , and twists everything so everyone else is always the bad guy and she's victimized . she crisized a friend of mine and ahri's , because their rp's got  " too short " and their grammar was too  " poor "  to be let into MY roleplay group . she insulted my friend's characters ( when she knew we were close as hell ) and asked flat out  " how are people comfortable with roleplaying with him ? " and ignored starters he had dropped BECAUSE of this , after complaining nobody ever interacted with her ???

now , if that had been the last time something like that had happened , sure , i could let it slide . but well , it wasn't . a day or two before this whole drama started , my friend ahri asked for aesthetics and simply MISPELT her name . and , if it had been someone else , i could understand getting annoyed - but ahri has dyslexia and i had told this " friend " that she had problems with her spelling before they ever even met ( bare in mind said  " friend " mispells words a LOT herself ) . the moment that ahri mispelt her name in a group chat , this  " friend " PMed me and started talking about ahri . allegedly , ahri also did not care about her and even disliked her . this drew the line - she was constantly criticizing anyone who did the smallest thing that annoyed her . i ended the group chat with her and ahri , and woke up to a message saying how the friend felt , which ultimately came across to me and multiple others as an attempt to guilt trip me , because on two occasions she'd been blocked , the first time harassing me and making me feel like shit over a steve harrington anon that i didn't feel up to roleplaying as all the damn time , even after i told her i wasn't interested in it at the time ( around christmas ) . she'd been blocked the second time because my dad had coronavirus and was EXTREMELY ill and she constantly wanted barry allen roleplays when i was busy and barely active as it was , when i was online i wasn't interested in roleplay . she turned on me and empathy , telling empathy they shouldn't be friends because i  ' wouldn't approve '  .  as others can confirm , i am NOT stopping anyone be friends with her and haven't told anyone i disprove . because i don't care . both times she damn well deserved to be blocked , and she hurt my friend for no reason whatsoever .

this time , i DIDN'T block her . after the friend constantly insulting my friends , i asked for a friend's help - who told me ahri and jay should know about it . i told them and ahri messaged her , obviously upset . i was blocked IMMEDIATELY and saw a post referring to me as a  " fake bitch " . funny she didn't even mention how fake and two faced SHE were to people she claimed to like .

the insulting my friends wasn't even the only thing that annoyed me . yes , it was the final blow , but she's also COPIED the major concept of my character tiffany allen - snow / alaska frost by using the same idea of a split personality , inheriting both parents powers , and even commenting on my headcanons #same all the time . that , and she used my layouts for books without any credit at all .

so to all you people out there thinking you knew everything about her , that's the truth . and whilst yes , she made things for me - since we cut ties i've started deleting everything she did ( i'm not that low ) but i've also made so much for her too . soooo yeah .