This is simply 'Confidence'

Now I hope you are not saying something along the line of  'well I don't have that.'

Remember that my guide is very much 'embarrassment proof ' so rest easy, you are in good hands.

Now just because you thought that, please refer to the 'Aura, manifestations and the state of mind' chapter.

Live by it, read it again and again, it will be the process so more easier on you.

Well now that we have addressed that, let's get into this step shall we.

The bodily contact step is just creating simple instances where there is simple touch.

The world is 'simple' don't make the mistake of doing too much, way too early.

Now, I'll give you some moves to use for the bodily contact step.

The first move which is my all time favorite.

THE NECKLACE MOVE

The necklace move is the easiest play in the book and it's very much embarrassment proof.

Assuming the guy you like is polite and doesn't absolutely hate your guts.

If he does however and you still like him, all hope isn't lost, just refer to the 'Avoid the enemies to lovers trope' chapter of this book.

Now back to the 'necklace move. '

You simply get a necklace and ask him to put it on for you because for some reason you can't.

Now the point of this move is to initiate body contact on the idea of body contact, that is if he is just really polite he would probably wear that necklace in a way where his hand wouldn't touch your neck or shoulder.

Well that's okay to cause the idea was just romanticizing your skin.

When going through move ensure you wear a top where either your shoulders and neck are exposed or a little bit of cleavage.

Because like I always say, the difference between a female friend and a girlfriend is 'sexual tension' that is would he sleep with you.

I guess this chapter is a bit 18+ but that's just because that's the plain truth.

Although the 'necklace move' is probably one of the most innocent moves to make.

It's basically just creating an idea in his head innocently and without letting him know that's what you are doing.

Here at the soft girls approach, never throw your sexuality in his face because it could go from love to lust real quick from his side.

Remember men are very easy creatures, if he feels like you are throwing 'sexy' in his face then that's all it's ever going to be, 'lust.'

I am assuming that's not what we want.

The idea is to do it without doing it.

There is balance.

- STEPS -

- Get a necklace.

- Wear a top exposing either shoulders and neck, or cleavage (if you can) now just neck also works fine cause you don't have to change yourself if you aren't comfortable. (For my modest girlies)

-Then basically ask him to help you with it in the softest way possible and I say 'softest way' cause that's the only way he wouldn't have the option to say no.

-Then say 'Thank you' after. (VERY IMPORTANT)

Why? You might ask.

Because that's how you get the guy to want to do more for you.

THE THIGH MOVE

Men are very visual creatures.

Now, this move is really simple to pull off and still
maintains the aura of innocence but at the same time it's still creating the idea.

This move involves sitting next to him.

Now obviously you have to wear something short, it doesn't have to be too short, just short enough that when you sit down, your legs are on display.

- STEPS -

First things first

- Wear something short enough that when you sit your thigh shows

- You must be sitting next to him

- Close your legs, make sure there is no space between them.

- Create a situation where he looks down, for instance, drop your pen or something towards his side.

- Once he picks it up, you have his attention.

- Don't take it from him just yet, look down at your thighs, rub it gently and say 'that actually hurt.'

- Keep doing those motions for a just a little longer.

- Then break and take whatever you dropped from him.

- Say thank you and smile.

It's either  asks you what happened or he doesn't.

If he does, you know he is at least interested, then you can keep going, angle your legs towards his direction, still closed by the way.

Make small talk about whatever supposedly hurt your thigh, remember to always smile, then break it off causally and go back to what you were doing. (Like pressing your phone or something.)

If he doesn't ask however, it's still fine cause you still created the idea of touch in his mind so you are still on the right track.

LET ME SEE YOUR NAILS MOVE

Oldest move in the books, it's also very easy.

To attempt this move, there has to be some level of friendship, that is already friends or maybe acquaintances that talk from time to time cause it would be awkward to grab a total strangers hand.

Well it's pretty self explanatory, this involves just holding his hand and looking at his nails.

For your sake I do hope he has clean nails or you would have to come up with some other compliment.

It takes a bit of courage but it's pretty casual so you don't have to worry about embarrassment.

- STEPS -

- Obviously you have to be close to him to reach out of take his hand. ( Left or right )

- Take it lightly ( do not hold firmly or fully)

- Look at it for a bit.

- Then look at him, (eye contact)

- Smile and say 'you have really neat nails'

- Let go after he replies.

Now this move is really just to initiate bodily contact while you are having a conversation with eye contact as well.

Some have said that it's a flirting move

I guess you understand the gist of the bodily contact step, there are so many moves but I will stop at three, they are tested by me and they always work.

Once you do them casually with a smile, you are good and have successfully implanted the idea of touch in his mind.