Don't ever judge someone on the basis of "what people say!"
Because "सबसे बडा रोग, क्या कहेंगे लोग?" has already diseased minds of many.
The sole reason being...any guess!?
Underestimating oneself.
Why do you need people to tell you about yourself? They don't even know you that well, then why?
Kabirji's Doha
"बुरा ज्यो देखन् मैं चला, बुरा ना मिल्या कोय।
जो अपने आप में खोज़ा, तो मुझसे बुरा ना कोय । ।"
had taught a major lesson in these two simple lines! The beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder similarly nicety, purity, goodness... that's there in your heart, mind, soul. Don't let "whatever people say" obscure your view about others as well as yourself.
See through the window of open mind, kind heart n pure soul!