My first pet peeve is being told I'm complaining when I tell someone what I feel or a problem I have it, but yet they do the same thing

My second pet peeve is asking someone to stop doing something (like touching me or something like that) and they continue doing it

My third pet peeve is picking something up, making something really clean and one of two things happen. 1) someone makes it a mess again. Or 2) being told it's dirty when it looks perfectly spotless