21. What three lessons you want your children to learn from you? 

April 11th, 2020

1. I want my children to embrace being different because I remember in high school there are a few types of people who are popular and every other type is considered like losers, different. Maybe you feel different in high school but once you go to college, university or the work market and you'll see that you are not alone. You'll discover that there are lots of people who were considered losers, weird, different when you are older and they are no longer discriminated by others. 

2. One of the motto I live by is to accept and let people be who they want to be as long as they don't hurt others. If people stopped judging others the world would be so much better. If a guy wants to wear pink, so be it, he is not hurting anyone. If a girl wants to have tattoo all over her body, let her be, she is not hurting anyone. Of course, there's a limit. For instance, someone who forces his/her idea on others is not something I agree with. Let me believe in what I believe as long as I don't hurt others.

3. Be independent and proud of yourself. Be proud of the direction your life is going, proud of trying, proud that sometimes you fail because you learn from making mistakes. Be independent and don't always rely on others because you need to love yourself first and you got to be able to do things on your own.